Grief

What is Grief?

Grief comes in all shapes and sizes.  If you put 20 or more people in a row and asked them that question you'd receive 20 or more answers.  That's because grief is a very individual experience.

We can grieve for someone's passing, for something we really wanted, the ending of a relationship, loss of a pet, the list goes on.  I listened to a young woman on the local news recently who'd had an ectopic pregnancy, she was grieving for the loss of her unborn child, what might have been and her fallopian tube reducing the chances of getting pregnant again. (she has since had a baby).

It will be 50 years in a few days since my mum died suddenly after an operation.  Obviously the rawness and shock or her death went a long time ago.  It's the 'what ifs' that pop up and bite your bum.  

Would I have stayed in nursing, would I have got married young, would she have some words of advice, would I have divorced, remarried, divorced, remarried or would she have put her arms round me and helped me through the rough patches - who knows.  What would she think of my children and grandchildren, I'm sure she would be very proud and loving.

I've learnt a great many things along the way, some easy and some very hard.  It's been an interesting journey and I hope it continues for a good many years yet!

I'm not sure what it would be like if I hadn't had all the complementary help, support and healing along the way.

I've been helping others like me (and you possibly) for many years now, it's been a privilege and an honour to see the changes you can make, one step at a time.

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